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May
14
2012
Pastor Shel Boese takes a look at the politics of marriage in the world’s best Babylon (remember that Tony Campolo line?) and comes to the conclusion that gay-marriage bans fritter around the edges of a robust “defense” of marriage:
IF you are going to “defend marriage” through ballots, borders, bombs, then we REALLY should be working on laws that end divorce and strongly prosecute any alienation of affection, repeal all “no-fault” divorces, go after adulterers with prison time, and generally insist on tracking everyone’s sexual activity. Focusing on 1.7% to 10% of the population through defining marriage as a one man/one woman – is just a grand distraction from the real enemies of marriage. (Those are in your heart – what laws will change YOUR heart? hmm… ) [emphasis in original; Shel Boese, "Be Like Jesus, Not a Politician," ShelBoese.org, 2012.05.11].
I don’t really want our Legislature or Congress to go there, and I don’t think Pastor Shel does, either:
Now for a (not so ?) radical suggestion: I believe the church should work at REMOVING all legal forms of Marriage. Marriage is NOT a civil contract – it is spiritual and religious. Therefore should be protected as worship is and who religious groups can hire is, but not sanctioned by the law. Instead we can advocate for legal civil union/domestic partnerships for all people defining contractual obligations when such arrangements go south and to protect children from destructive/abusive situations [Boese, 2012.05.11].
Two people should not have to get the state’s permission to love and make a lifelong commitment to each other (wait: love and lifelong commitment are the same thing, aren’t they?). The state should get out of reinforcing some folks’ religious definition of marriage and focus on its primary purpose of protecting equality and justice (including economic justice) for all citizens.
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